Why Love lasts:

This was the topic of discussion on the show” One Life to Love” on NDTV this Saturday (one of my favorite shows). The bottom line of the whole session was to follow 3 important rules:
1. Listen: Listen to what your loved one says. Listen with due concern and understand his /her emotions.
2. Talk: Share your emotions and feelings. Any issues talk it over.
3. Remember: Remember vital happenings and recollect at time of leisure. This brings new subject of deliberations and makes one pleased to be a part of that incidence.

The instance he quoted was very sweet: One morning you are having a cup of tea, you recollect that this cup was got at such and such place. Then immediately the conversation grows recollecting the happy times you had together at that place and then a plan to have one more such vacation!!!

It is here he quotes the significance of traveling with someone and not alone. When you travel with another person, when you recollect the vacation, you have someone with whom you could converse those incidences and relate to your thoughts. This helps you build stronger associations.

Only if these three crucial niceties are pursued by the concerned individuals will any relation prosper else it will deteriorate sooner than later!!! How true, just try recollecting any of your past relations which you feel no more exists the way it did before, this would be the primary reason. :)

Let’s move forward with anticipation that this at least might assist us handle our upcoming associations in a better way!!!