The world around me:

These days I am confused about the world around me. How is the best way to live out here?Be modest, work hard, do your best and believe that your work will deserve the best of the opportunities or be confident( may just slip to over confidence too at times), show case what you have done at everypoint, demand for your needs and aim high and always be sure that you get it( talent does not matter as much it matters in the previous case).

All this while I was very much to my work and aimed at learning new things. Got rewards for the same and was very much to myself. Always thinking of my project, what can be done to better it application wise or process wise.

I always looked at people with immense knowledge compared to me and believed that its only that amount of expertise in the field that can give me the position or the benefits they have got.

Now with new acquaintance in life, I am getting to know the different things happening around me.I am beginning to realize that not only talent but there are many other aspects that help you reach your goals. I have begun to see many around me with not so much talent in the technical sense but talent in their communication, assertiveness, confidence, timely approach and political tactics have achieved much more. And these qualities I feel are very much there in me which I have not concentrated on all this while. This goes to say that I can achieve much more than what I have currently done,in case this approach to the goal I have seen now is correct.

I guess I have given a fair idea of what is the dilemma going in me. In case any of you can give me your opinions or suggestion on this, I would be eager to know it.